Ukrainian widows become mothers via frozen embryos

By Rostyslav Averchuk

Lviv, Ukraine, May 10 (EFE).- Modern reproductive technologies are helping Ukrainian women become mothers after losing their husbands in the war, allowing them to preserve family dreams and keep alive the memory of loved ones killed in combat.

“She has the same sly twinkle in her eyes as her father,” 40-year-old Iryna Farion told EFE with a smile as she looked at her six-month-old daughter, Oleksandra. The girl was born nearly three years after her father, Oleksandr Alimov, was killed in combat.

Iryna is among a growing number of Ukrainian women giving birth using the preserved genetic material of husbands killed in the war.

A love story For Iryna, Oleksandra’s birth fulfilled a long-cherished dream of motherhood while keeping her husband’s memory alive.

“She is a miracle and the living embodiment of our relationship,” Iryna said, watering flowers at her husband’s grave.

The couple, both IT professionals, shared a love of travel and many common values. They had been trying to have children for several years when Russia launched its full-scale invasion of Ukraine in February 2022.

Oleksandr felt he could not stand aside and immediately volunteered to join the Ukrainian defence forces despite having no previous military experience.

“He wanted to become a father and even considered adopting a child who had lost their parents in the war,” Iryna recalled.

In December 2022, Oleksandr was killed by a Russian sniper in the Luhansk region. At the time, a single embryo, the last remaining from the couple’s previous fertility treatments, was still frozen at a clinic.

That final embryo became Iryna’s lifeline.

“It helped me not only survive the loss but also find new meaning in life,” she said.

After months of psychological support, prayer, physical training, and careful attention to her health, backed by both families and close friends, Iryna underwent the embryo transfer. “I had no room for error. It was my last chance.”

Oleksandra was born in late 2025.

Inspiration for others Stories like Iryna’s inspire both patients and doctors, said Lubov Mykhaylyshyn, director of the Lummeda fertility clinic in Lviv.

“This shows that life wins even on scorched earth,” Mykhaylyshyn told EFE.

The experienced doctor, whose husband serves in the military, quickly realized after the invasion began that the war would have a profound impact on fertility.

Chronic stress, sleep deprivation, and exposure to pollutants linked to warfare are affecting the reproductive health of soldiers and civilians alike.

As the war drags on, many women face uncertainty and difficulties finding partners, with hundreds of thousands of men serving in the military.

More Ukrainians, civilians and military personnel alike, are now freezing eggs, sperm, and embryos in the hope of becoming parents once conditions improve.

“Before the invasion, we had only a handful of such cases. Now the numbers are growing steadily,” Mykhaylyshyn said.

Her clinic has helped around 20 female soldiers, many in their late thirties, preserve their eggs through cryogenic storage.

The Ukrainian state currently covers storage costs for both male and female service members, while clinic staff carefully monitor containers filled with liquid nitrogen.

Strong motivation Although exact statistics are unavailable, the expansion of Ukraine’s nationwide program for preserving genetic material means that more women are now giving birth to children conceived with the preserved embryos or sperm of husbands killed in action.

“The desire to continue a family line becomes an extremely powerful motivation in the most difficult conditions,” Mykhaylyshyn said.

While every story is unique, widows who want to become mothers must believe that something good can still happen in their lives despite the pain and loss, Iryna said.

Rocking her daughter gently, she said she felt a great responsibility to tell her who her father was, how he died, and why their love was so strong. “I want her to know that she was born from great love.” EFE

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